《去爱吧》 ——艾佛列德·德索萨 Love like you've never been hurt . Dance like nobody's watching. Sing like nobody's listening. work like you don't need the money . Live like it's heaven on earth. --------Alfred D’Souza 去爱吧,就像不曾受过伤一样 跳舞吧,像没有人会欣赏一样 唱歌吧,像没有人会聆听一样 干活吧,像是不需要金钱一样 生活吧,就像今天是末日一样 to love, like never been hurt to dance,like no one appreciate to sing, like no one listen to to work, like no need of money to life, like today is the end. ——Alfred D’Souza We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another. Then we are frustrated that the kids arent old enough and well be more contet when they are. After that were frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together. When we get a nice a car, and are able to go on a nice vocation. when we retire. The truth is, theres no better time than right now. if not now, when? Our life will always be filled with challenges. Its best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza. He said."for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, someting to be gotten through firest, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have. And remember that time waits for no one. So stop wailting until you finish school, until you go back to school; until you get married, until you get divorced; until you have kids; until you retire; until you get a new car or home; until spring; until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy…. so, 我哭,因為有眼淚 춤추라 , 아무도 바라버고 있지않은 것처럼 사랑하라 , 한번도 상처받지않은 것처럼 노래하라 , 아모도 듣고 있지않은 것처럼 일하라,돈이필요 하지않은 것처럼 갈라,오늘이 마지막 날인 것처럼 我笑,因為牙齒美 我唱歌,因為有些不能用說的 我跳舞,因為腳不願意躺下來 我工作,因為那是人生一部份 我去愛,因為我是不可取代的 我活著,因為我的心還在跳動