家庭教育 不要打骂孩子

家庭教育 不要打骂孩子 Robin 赵 2011-10-14 11:07:00 打骂孩子可能会解决眼前的一个小问，却给孩子的成长留下大隐患，创痕会伴随孩子一生 进化腐朽文化 2011-10-14 11:33:14 爹虽然没文化，打你爹也心疼，骂你爹也难受，但是爹的心是好的，只是爹只会打骂，不会别的，你还是应该对爹感恩～ Robin 赵 2011-10-14 11:35:33 要记住，凡通过打骂能解决的问题，通过态度友好的教育也可以完成。 Robin 赵 2011-10-14 11:36:46 打骂是教育中最坏的办法.. Robin 赵 2011-10-14 11:49:45 要记住，凡通过打骂能解决的问题，通过态度友好的教育也可以完成。——我的观点 Robin 赵 2011-10-14 11:56:34 因为——凡通过打骂能解决的问题，通过态度友好的教育也可以完成。 日期:2011-10-21 coney小桔灯 10:38:24 有些老师也是欠的 Robin 赵 10:38:33 桑笛—13，说到了毅力等方面的问题，也很重要～ coney小桔灯 10:38:57 比喻说吧，我家小孩觉得老师老拖堂影响上课的兴趣了，她回家告诉我不开心。 coney小桔灯 10:40:15 后来，我想打个电话说一下，小孩又怕这样不好。结果有一天，学校搞调查问卷，这时小孩就按要求填了，说老师经常拖堂。结果学校找老师谈话了，老师跑班上一问，谁说我拖堂啊,～结果我家小孩很讲求实效的，举手说是自己说的。 风飞 10:41:03 很棒的孩子～ the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith coney小桔灯 10:41:39 我怕这个问题导致老师对我家小孩有成见哦。打电话向老师说明，反过来老师向我说明。我觉得老师知道这样拖堂不好，改了就是了嘛，何必跑到班上去问孩子呢。哎 coney小桔灯 10:42:10 全班只有我家小孩一个说了这个问题。一调查，这个老师是天天拖堂的，基本小孩课间没有的玩，所以反感啊。 coney小桔灯 10:42:54 现在这个老师不敢拖堂了，我家小孩说很喜欢上这个老师的课了。到时间就下课，有孩子没完成，个别留下啦，别耽误全班课间休息。 coney小桔灯 10:43:36 孩子遇到很小的问题，家长要重视一下。要不，会造成孩子的困惑，又会延续到兴趣的问题出现。对吗 Robin 赵 10:44:30 对的，另外，大人看起来的“小问题”，对孩子可是“天大的事儿” coney小桔灯 10:44:44 对对 10:44:47 风飞 就是啊， 向日葵 10:44:48 向日葵 10:45:00 说得很对 coney小桔灯 10:45:02 就是这样的，小孩的视角就是这样。所以要重视孩子们的小小问题 向日葵 10:45:03 贴切 Robin 赵 10:45:39 很多孩子是因为这些“小问题”没处理好，而导致不喜欢学习。 coney小桔灯 10:45:53 孩子带在身边一点点成长，我们家长要及时帮孩子们答疑解惑。 the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith coney小桔灯 10:46:03 就是这样的。 向日葵 10:46:12 coney小桔灯 10:46:19 所以我目前还没发现孩子不喜欢上什么课，虽然报的科目比较多。 coney小桔灯 10:46:44 如果孩子不喜欢了，我就及时调整的。满足她的学习习惯，一点一点地引导她学习。 coney小桔灯 10:48:45 不好意思啊，各位。我一上来，发言就过多了。而且我是新来的，这样发言，希望大家见谅。 Robin 赵 10:49:31 你的分享很好，又有收获了 coney小桔灯 10:49:43 谢谢啊。 10:51:33 Robin 赵 谢谢你的故事，这就是具体的方法啊 coney小桔灯 10:52:09 呵呵。我喜欢这样分享，别人的故事也给了我启发。 coney小桔灯 10:52:19 天天和孩子打交道，天天有心得。 coney小桔灯 10:54:18 前天我家孩子向我说，很喜欢跟同学玩卡片游戏，可是又怕输，所以家里很多卡片不敢拿到学校去玩。结果前天晚上我陪着她玩，教她方法，如何能赢得好，也要输得起。关键是要有技巧。结果昨天她去了学校玩，一张卡片赢了同学一盒，回家后，信心十足，不会怯生生地回避这个游戏了。呵呵。 coney小桔灯 10:55:14 要鼓励孩子参与同学的游戏，要合群。 Robin 赵 10:55:23 对了。父母要是这么用心，不愁孩子学不好～ the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith coney小桔灯 10:55:36 嗯是的。 coney小桔灯 10:57:17 孩子向家长反应问题时，家长不要因为心情或是忙拒绝或是不耐烦地粗暴地对待孩子。有时家长无意识的拒绝会让孩子很受伤。。 一生平安 10:58:05 小桔灯的建议不错 coney小桔灯 10:58:17 谢谢 一生平安 10:59:17 以前我小孩刚上幼儿园时，时不时回来说有个小朋友掐他脸，当时我没在意，说了几次我才想到问题 Robin 赵 10:59:55 家长慢了半拍，呵呵 coney小桔灯 11:00:07 要及时处理的。我也碰过 11:01:03 一生平安 后来跟老师反映，才知道这个小朋友有这个小动作，掐过班上好些同学，有些人都因为这怕上幼儿园了 一生平安 11:01:26 家长见着了也总是道歉 coney小桔灯 11:01:40 要幼儿园时，我家小孩被抓伤，回家就哭。我马上打电话问情况的，然后打电话找到这个抓人的小孩的家长做沟通，整个过程我小孩都在旁边，让小孩感觉到妈妈在为她的事做努力在呵护她。然后抓人小孩的家长电话里向我小孩马上道歉。以至后来见了这个小孩，还道了歉。 coney小桔灯 11:02:49 要重视的。要不，形成的伤害就是家长不爱她，她内心受伤。 coney小桔灯 11:03:38 或是说如果因为自己的孩子言语上伤害了别的孩子，也要对自己的孩子教育一下，至少要知道，不好听的语言也是伤害人的。 风飞 11:04:56 the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith 嗯，谢谢小桔灯的分享，我也要反省自己和孩子的这些。。。。。 coney小桔灯 11:05:07 呵呵 coney小桔灯 11:06:30 昨天小孩跟说我说，学校要搞捐款。 风飞 11:07:22 哦，然后呢, coney小桔灯 11:07:51 因为别的学校有位小朋友得了重病，又没钱治，市里所有学校要捐款。捐的钱数 小孩说要二百，说她是班长，不能落后。但是我和她爸爸感到为难，是不是捐得 太多了。可以少一点，不是家里没这个钱，而是说我捐二百，其它孩子呢。要综 合一下的。 coney小桔灯 11:08:12 我给小孩说了，最低捐五十。 coney小桔灯 11:09:11 所以这个问题，也希望各位给点意见啊。 11:09:27 coney小桔灯 怎样引导孩子这种爱心行为。 coney小桔灯 11:10:14 学校没规定捐款额度的。 coney小桔灯 11:15:01 Robin 赵 能给点建议吗 桑笛— 11:15:09 大人看起来的“小问题”，对孩子可是“天大的事儿” 桑笛— 11:15:19 这句话有理。 coney小桔灯 11:15:20 是的啊 Robin 赵 11:15:21 没想好，呵呵 the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith coney小桔灯 11:15:33 要重视，还要及时重视。 coney小桔灯 11:15:36 呵呵呵 coney小桔灯 11:15:51 我现在正在考虑这个捐款的问题，可能下周要捐的。 the Communist Party of China, and a deep understanding of the party's nature, purpose, guiding principles, goals, organization, good style, deeply understand the conditions, rights and obligations of members, code of conduct, bearing in mind that oath, clear Members of the standards and conditions, enhance respect, abide by the Constitution, maintaining the party Constitution consciousness of the party Constitution. Read through the familiar with the code of self-discipline of the CPC, the CPC disciplinary regulations, members of the Communist Party of China party regulations on rights protection Ordinance, mastering self-discipline standards of "four must", the "four upholdings", mastering various types of disciplinary offence and punishment provisions and clear what you can do, what they can't do. 2. speech understanding learning series XI series the basic spirit of an important speech by General Secretary, learn to understand the Party Central Committee on governance of the new concept of basic elements of new ideas and new strategies, master and strengthen the party spirit, fulfills the purpose ideas, moral character, conservation related to the basic requirements. Learning of the XI series read the important speech by General Secretary (2016), XI Henan work research guide, General Secretary's important speech. Learning series speech, main understand master following aspects content: (1) ideal faith