创业重要还是成家重要的英文文档
Our piont is carrer comes the first.
Frist of all, I don’t think they are contrary, but for us, we will graduate from the school and take part in the big society family. We will face a lot of uncertainties and challenge. We have the srenghten to realise our dream and change our life, in a word, now we think carrer comes the frist. Frist, for a family it must have a stable ecnomic base. Just as Lu xun in his novel《injury》said: no economic basis, the love is the castles in the air. That not means if you don’t have economic, you can’t get married, but
compared it will be better.
Secondly, family, the big responsibility, it needs economic base to support. In the process of estabishing carrer, we can improve our thouthts when we treat problems in depth and breadth, make us cognize the society and take our own responsibility. But for a young person it is difficult. If now, you found a family and have a baby, we even don’t have much money to
buy baby diapers. And we will face a lot of family problems such as we can see in the TV series《naked marriage》when liu yiyang get married
with Tong jiaqian, they face so many problems: you have to support your parents and your wife’s (maybe your hunsband’s parents) and you have to
raise your children and give them a good education. So I think once a person had a family he or she will have a lot of trifling matters to deal with, to a person who don’t have found his own carrer, it will be a
distraction and even hinder the achivement of our value.
Thirdly, if family comes the first, then I think it will become a burden of the carrer. Sometimes no bread no love, just as an old chinese saying goes: everything goes wrong for a poor couple. Also someone says: without love a marriage can breath stiffly, without bread the marriage is the grave of love. Then such kind of family, what’s the meaning on earth it is ?
human’s engry is limited, as like you cannot have your cake and eat it, you wanna get the family happy and the prototype of the carrer, but only finally two hands are empty, it’s a sadness.
Ultimately, whatever judge a person is his character. In contraty, the character determine the life. If you think you are a businessman then forcus on your business, and put your love at the second position. If you are a family man then just do it.
The road of the life must depends on ourself, don’t need to rely on
someone. Even if depend on , is just the way. Just like you walk on a mountain path, in the rough places where you will only grasp what you have, and won’t catch what is what.