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2012闸北初三英语二模试卷和答案(官方版) 2011学年度第二学期九年级英语学科期中练习卷 (2012.4) (考试时间:100分钟～满分:150分) 考生注意:本卷有7大题，共99小题。均采用连续编号，请务必将所有答案写在答题纸上，写在试卷 上不给分。 Part 1 Listening (第一部分 听力) I. Listening Comprehension (听力理解): (共30分) A. Listen and choose the right picture (根据你听到的内容，选出相应的图片): (共6分) A B C D E F G B. Listen to the dialogue and choose the best answer to the question you hear (根据你听到的 对话和问题，选出最恰当的答案): (共10分) 7. A) A cat. B) A dog. C) A duck. D) A rabbit. 8. A) By bus. B) By train. C) By air. D) By ferry. 9. A) Cloudy. B) Sunny. C) Rainy. D) Snowy. 10.A) Jane. B) Bill. C) Mary. D) Jack. 11.A) Milk. B) Bread. C) Salad. D) Eggs. 12.A) 2. B) 3. C) 4. D) 5. 13.A) The pink one. B) The black one. C) The orange one. D) The brown one. 14.A) In a school. B) In a hospital. C) At home. D) At a concert. 15.A) She was watching TV. B) She was making a phone call. C) She was meeting Harry at home. D) She was being questioned by a policeman. 16. A) Because the supermarket closes early. B) Because the fruit sells quickly in that supermarket. C) Because Mum needs the fruit to make a salad. D) Because the guests will be coming in a short time. C. Listen to the passage and tell whether the following statements are true or false (判断下列 句子是否符合你听到的短文内容, 符合的用“T”表示，不符合的用“F”表示): (共7分) 17. You can learn about American culture and improve your English in the summer English courses in Los Angeles. 18. The groups in these courses are always less than 15 people. 19. Tests are provided every month to see the progress you are making with language skills. your 20. For many of the students, the most interesting part of the course is to experience life in the USA. 21. You can either live with an American family or at a hotel when taking courses. 22. You don‘t need to pay for the course until it begins. 23. This passage is probably an advertisement to introduce a summer English course. D. Listen to the passage and complete the following sentences (听短文，完成下列内容，每空 格限填一词): (共7分) 24. Every ________, visitors from all over the world travel to Edinburgh to enjoy the arts festival. 25. It lasts for three ________ weeks and is full of international performances. 26. The creation and celebration of this festival dates back to ________. 27. It was created to improve international relationships among ________. 28. The Edinburgh Festival is a group of ―small‖ festivals happening in the ________ of Scotland. 29. You will need different ________ to their own events. 30. The best artists from China, India, Japan, Korea ________ others from all parts of the world. Part 2 Vocabulary and Grammar (第二部分 词汇和语法) ?. Choose the best answer (选择最恰当的答案): (共20分) 31. It‘s very hot. Why not go for ______swim instead of staying in the air-conditioned room? A) a B) an C) the D) / 32. The Titanic struck an iceberg and sank on its first voyage ______ April, 1912. A) in B) on C) at D) for 33. The textbooks you‘re using are different from ______. A) us B) our C) ours D) ourselves 34. They were all very tired, but ______ of them stopped to have a rest. A) either B) both C) neither D) none 35. We need huge amounts of ______ to plant the trees in our city. A) workers B) farmers C) dollars D) money 36. Although the expenses at Harvard University are high, students often pay ______ with the help of scholarships. A) much B) more C) little D) less 2 37. We‘ll have a ______ holiday soon. What about going to Chongming Island? A) three days B) three-day C) three-days D) three days‘ 38. The fruit from Taiwan tastes ______. Will you taste some more? A) well B) wonderfully C) beautifully D) nice 39. With an area of 200,000 square metres, the new National Museum has become ______ museum in the world. A) large B) larger C) largest D) the largest 40. ______ important city in the history of China Yan‘an was! A) What B) What an C) How D) How an 41. When water moves from a high place to a lower place, it ______ make electricity. A) can B) must C) need D) should 42. ______ Steve Jobs has left us, his creative ideas will always have great influence on the whole world. A) If B) Until C) Although D) Since 43. Joyce has a good memory. She still remembers ______ she lived in her childhood. A) when B) where C) what D) that 44. I keep ______ yoga after work because it helps me keep in good shape. A) practise B) practising C) to practise D) to practising 45. This summer, Chinese sports fans ______ able to watch the exciting games in 3-D on CCTV during the London Olympic Games. A) are B) were C) will be D) would be 46. On February 29 the world‘s tallest broadcast tower ―the Tokyo Sky Tree‖ ______ finally. A) completed B) is completed C) was completed D) has completed 47. We‘ve decided to ______ the spring outing till next week because of the bad weather. A) put off B) put on C) put out D) put up 48. –______ is the cross-sea bridge of Hangzhou Gulf? –36 kilometres. It‘s longer than any other cross-sea bridge in the world. A) How long B) How soon C) How often D) How far 49. – Thank you for offering us such a good meal. – ______ A) I‘m glad you all enjoyed it. B) Come next time. C) I didn‘t cook so well. D) Don‘t mention it. 50. – You look so thin these days. You‘d better see a doctor. – ______ A) Yes, please. B) That‘s all right. C) Yes, I will. Thank you. D) What a pity! ?. Complete the following passage with the words or phrases in the box. Each word or phrase can only be used once(将下列单词或词组填入空格。每空格限填一词，每词或词 组只能填一次):(共8分) A. feeding B. season C. illness D. male E. hopefully F. helpless G. climate H. used to I. get used to 3 Kelvin works in a zoo. He loves animals very much. Here are some of his diaries. ?. Complete the sentences with the given words in their proper forms(用括号中所给单词 的适当形式完成下列句子，每空格限填一词): (共8分) 59. Ivy missed her parents after she had spent a few ___________ abroad. (month) 60. On the Double ___________ Festival, people usually climb mountains. (nine) 61. For many students, choosing a job is the most important life ___________ they must make at school. (decide) 62. The music he was playing was so beautiful. We all lost ___________ in it. (we) 63. I love the programme ―Schools in students‘ eyes‖ made by Shanghai ___________ TV Station. (education) 64. Do you agree ―Beating a child is a good way to make the child ___________‖ said by Wolf Dad? (success) 65. If you want to ___________ your dream, study hard from now on. (real) 66. Jane gets angry ___________. She‘d better get rid of it. (easy) ?. Rewrite the following sentences as required(根据所给要求，改写下列句子。每空格限 填一词): (共14分) 67. Willy does some housework with his mum at weekends. (改为否定句) Willy _________ do _________ housework with his mum at weekends. 68. Online team-buying services are developing quickly in China. (改为反意疑问句) Online team-buying services are developing quickly in China, _________ _________? 69. Modern science and technology have changed our lives in many ways. (改为被动语态) Our lives _________ _________ changed by modern science and technology in many ways. 70. Justin Bieber cut his hair to sell on eBay to raise money for charity. (对划线部分提问) 4 _________ _________ Justin Bieber cut his hair to sell on eBay? 71. The cars moved slowly because of the heavy snow. (保持句意基本不变) The cars moved slowly because it _________ _________. 72. Seeing birds is nice when enjoying the sunrise. (保持句意基本不变) _________ _________ to see birds when enjoying the sunrise. 73. Has Edward corrected his mistakes in the test paper? The teacher wondered. (合并为一句) The teacher wondered _________ Edward _________ corrected his mistakes in the test paper. Part 3 Reading and Writing (第三部分 读写) ?. Reading comprehension (阅读理解): (共50分) A. Choose the best answer(根据短文内容，选择最恰当的答案): (共12分) How to make your blog attractive like World of Warcraft/WOW(魔兽世界) I am going to show you why WOW features are so attractive and how you can apply that to your blog. 1. Appear popular Every gamer you know has played WOW and all your friends are talking about it. It makes you feel like you are missing out. People do not like to miss out on popular things. Appearing popular is important if you want people to feel like they need to be a part of the action. It is terrible when you arrive on a blog that looks lifeless and dead. On the other hand, when you arrive on a site that is filled with conversations and energy you just have to get into it. 2. Meet people’s need to be in a group One of the most attractive things about WOW is the fact that it meets people‘s need to feel a part of a group. When you play WOW, you join groups of players from around the world. If you want to make your blog more attractive, you have to meet people‘s need to be in a group. 3. Lure(诱惑)with the promise of rewards and new features People spend their entire lives playing WOW mostly because they can level up (升级) . Without new levels, weapons and magic spells, WOW would be dead and gone by now. If you add some kind of nice reward or new level, you are going to attract a lot of interest. So what are you adding to your blog in order to keep it exciting and new? 4. Create another world for your readers The real fans of WOW see it as another world. A world in which they can perform magic, make friends, conquer towns and change. What do your readers want to feel and discover? What makes them happy? These are essential questions to know if you want to create another world for your fans. 5 74. If you want to appear popular, you‘d better . A) play WOW with all your friends B) try to fill your blog with conversations and energy C) stop visiting a blog that looks lifeless D) try to know what your friends are talking about 75. When you play WOW, ________. A) you play by yourself B) you fight with the computer C) you should meet people‘s need D) you should write a blog 76. If you want to create another world for your fans, following questions may be asked EXCEPT ________ A) What do my readers want to feel? B) What do my readers want to discover? C) What makes my readers happy, D) What makes my readers complain? 77. The underlined word ?conquer‘ in the last paragraph but one probably means ________. A) control B) choose C) cross D)cover 78. According to this passage, which sentence is NOT TRUE? A) No one likes to miss out on popular things. B) People prefer being alone to working in a group. C) Some kind of nice reward can attract people to your blog. D) It‘s important to create another world for your readers to feel and discover. 79. The writer‘s purpose in writing this passage is ________. A) to give facts about World of Warcraft B) to ask people to play World of Warcraft C) to put an advertisement for World of Warcraft D) to tell how to make a blog attractive like World of Warcraft B. Choose the words or expressions and complete the passage(选择最恰当的单词或词语完 成短文):(共12分) Shanghai Circus World Shanghai Circus World, regarded as China's 'No. 1 Circus World' is located in Zhabei District. It has a special architecture with a beautiful golden vault(拱顶) and can seat an _80 _ of 1638. The modern stage facilities, lighting and sound equipment _81_ it to be a nice performance site. Great Programs There are _82_ most famous and popular programs which have regular performances in Shanghai Circus World. They are ERA Intersection of Time(时空之旅) and Happy Circus. ERA Intersection of Time has been performed since 2005. It is unique to Shanghai and similar to the tradition of the Broadway Musical(百老汇音乐剧). It is in fact an amazing acrobatic show combining traditional Chinese arts and __83__ technologies. You can see present Chinese acrobatics, martial arts(武术) and dance perfectly with the music, sound, lighting, and other special effects, which include a water screen. __84__ you are surprised at the excellent 6 skills of the performers, the story of China's revolution(革命) from its ancient past to the future is told. So the title 'Intersection of Time', as the viewpoint of the audience is set in the present between the past and the future. Happy Circus was first _85_ by Shanghai Acrobatic Troupe(上海马戏团) in 2003. Since then it has gained rising popularity among the local people as well as tourists. It is an excellent circus with animal acts, breathtaking acrobatics and humorous clowns. 80. A) advertisement B) actor C) audience D) area 81. A) invite B) change C) ask D) enable 82. A) two B) three C) four D) five 83. A) modern B) natural C) interesting D) familiar 84. A) If B) When C) Since D) Unless 85. A) produced B) provided C) proved D) processed C. Read the passage and fill in the blanks with proper words(在短文的空格内填入适当的 词，使其内容通顺，每空格限填一词，首字母已给):(共14分) How much do you know about Antarctica(南极洲)—the driest and least-known place in the world? One hundred years ago, humans threached the South Pole for the first time. It was on December 14, 1911. After more than 50 days of fighting with strong fog(雾), cold and wind, Norwegian explorer Roald Amundsen and his four-man team f__86__ got to the South Pole. They became the first people to get there. People know very little about Antarctica. With over 98% of its surface c__87__ by ice, Antarctica attracts groups of scientists from around the world. Many countries built research stations to learn more about the icy land. There are now 82 stations in Antactica. More than 30 scientific exploration(考察) teams go there every year. Scientists study plants, animals and weather in Antactica. Their research is important to learn about global climate change. China first sent scientists to Antarctica in 1984. S__88__ thththen, scientists go there to do research every year. On December 16, the 28 exploration team left for Kunlun Station. One of their t__89__ is to put an ice radar(雷达) in the station. Do you want to see beautiful southern lights and lovely penguins? How about a short t__90__ to Antactica? The perfect time to go there is from N__91__ to March. This is summer in Antarctica. People can get to South America by plane first. Then they take a boat to Antarctica. There aren‘t any places to live in Antarctica. So people usually stay on the boat. There are no good doctors or hospitals in Antarctica. If you have a s__92__ disease, such as heart disease, you‘d better not travel there. So get fully prepared is very important before you start your journey. D. Answer the questions(根据短文内容回答下列问题): (共12分) 7 Quebec City(魁北克城), Place Royal – Birthplace of New France SKI Season Special: Why not stay in Old Quebec City during your ski trip? We are located near ski mountains. This would be the perfect base for those looking for a week holiday, but maybe not wanting to ski everyday. On your off day, 400 years of history waits for you as you walk through the stone streets of Place Royal. SPECIAL NOTE: This Place Royal condo(公寓) has just received a FOUR Star rating from Tourism Quebec. This is the highest rating for any tourist accommodations(住宿) in the Old City. This condo is located in the heart of Place Royal. The location was named after Louis XIV and is one of the last remaining witnesses of 17th & 18th century buildings in North America. It is from this location that the beginnings of New France began to develop 400 years ago. Restaurants, Antique Shops, Art Galleries, and museums are located minutes from this location. Step outside and within minutes you will realize why Quebec has been named a UNESCO World Heritage Site(联合国教科文组织世界文化遗产). In 2002 Hollywood went looking for a site location for the Europe scenes for the Tom Hanks, Leonardo DiCaprio movie, "Catch Me If You Can". The turning point when Hanks captures DiCaprio is supposed to be in Paris, France, but is actually shot about one minute away from the condo. We invite you to step into the luxury condo to begin your vacation memories then ....step out into 400 years of history. 93. How old is Quebec City? _____________________________________________________. 94. Quebec City is in North America, isn‘t it? ________, ____________________________________________. 95. Why do we say Quebec City is the birthplace of New France? _____________________________________________________. 96. What has Quebec been named? _____________________________________________________. 97. What‘s the name of the movie starring by Tom Hanks and Leonardo DiCaprio? _____________________________________________________. 98. What do you think of Quebec City? _____________________________________________________. ?. Writing (作文): (共20分) 99. Write a passage of at least 60 words on the topic ‘A good idea’. (以“好主意”为题，写一 篇不少于60个词的短文。标点符号不占格。) 8 ( 注意:短文中不得出现考生的姓名、校名及其他相关信息，否则不予评分。) Suggested questions(以下问题仅供参考) (((((((( , What did the father and the son find at the beach? , What was the son‘s idea? , What do you think of the idea? Useful expressions: a wooden box so…that… come up with an idea set up a stall It turns out that … send mails by bottles 9 听力文字和参考答案 Part 1 Listening ?. Listening comprehension(听力理解): A. Listen and choose the right picture (根据你听到的内容，选出相应的图片): 1. It‘s nice to sit under the tree, enjoying the beautiful scenery. (B) 2. All these flowers need watering every day. (G) 3. Alice was listening to music while running in the park this time yesterday. (A) 4. Jennifer is going to take a trip by plane. (E) 5. Mary didn‘t hear the telephone ring, for she was having a bath. (C) 6. Does Jane play hula hoop after supper to keep herself fit? (D) B. Listen to the dialogue and choose the best answer to the question you hear (根据你听到的 对话和问题，选出最恰当的答案): 7. M: I don‘t like such animals as cats, dogs or ducks. W: Oh, I do. And I like dogs even better. I‘ve got a pet dog at home and I often play with it. Q: What animal does the woman often play with? (B) 8. M: I am travelling to Paris on Flight AF115. Do I check in here? W: That‘s right, Sir. Can I see your ticket and your passport, please? Q: How is the man travelling to Paris? (C) 9. M: Is it still snowing outside now? W: No, the snow stopped a moment ago. The sun has come out. Q: What is the weather like now? (B) 10. M: Mary, did you see Bill this morning? Where is he? W: He‘s helping Jane with her English lessons in the classroom, Jack. Q: Who is not good at English? (A) 11. M: Morning, Mum. What‘s for breakfast? W: I‘ve prepared milk, bread, salad and some eggs. M: Great! Salad is my favourite. Q: What does the boy like to eat best? (C) 12. W: Excuse me, Mr William. Can you tell me something about my host family? M: Sure. You‘ll be staying with Mr and Mrs Green. Mr Green is a dentist. And they have two children. The elder son is in a university. The other is a daughter in a junior high school. Q: How many people are there in Mr Green‘s family? (C) 13. M: Darling, do you like this bookshelf? It looks good. W: Well, I don‘t like it, especially the colour. You see, it‘s orange, but our walls are pink and the floor is brown. They don‘t match! M: I see. Then how about the black one? W: It is wonderful. Q: Which bookshelf will they probably buy? (B) 14. M: Could you tell me when I can go home? W: Next week. M: Can I go to the concert on Saturday evening? 10 W: Sorry, the doctor said no. Now take the medicine, please. Q: Where are the two speakers? (B) 15. M: What were you doing at 8:30 last night? W: I was watching TV at home. M: Who can prove that? W: No one, I‘m afraid. Oh, I remember Harry called me at about 8: 00 p.m. and we talked for nearly 30 minutes on the phone. Q: What was the woman doing at 8:15 last night? (B) 16. W: Oh, our guests are coming soon, but we haven‘t got enough fruit. M: Shall I go to the supermarket and buy some, Mum? W: Nice boy. Go and get some bananas and oranges. Here‘s the money. Hurry up and be careful. M: All right. I‘ll be back soon. Q: Why does the boy have to buy the fruit in a hurry? (D) C. Listen to the passage and tell whether the following statements are true or false (判断下列 句子是否符合你听到的短文内容, 符合的用“T”表示，不符合的用“F”表示): Learn English in Los Angeles We provide summer English courses which are the best you can find. You will enjoy coming to Los Angeles to learn about American culture and improve your English at the same time. The courses last for four, six or eight weeks. They start at the beginning of July and August. Our teachers are well-trained and very experienced. They teach English classes for four hours a day. You can choose between small groups of two or three, or larger groups of up to 15. We provide weekly tests to see the progress you‘re making with your language skills of reading, writing, speaking and listening. We also provide books and other materials. As well as learning English, we want you to experience life in the USA. You live with an American family, and you take part in American life. You have meals with an American family and do some activities with them, too. For many of our students this is the most interesting part of the course. Many families create friendships with the students which last a long time. Of course, if you prefer, we can arrange hotel accommodation. Of course, there are many things to do in Los Angeles. Every day we have activities which take place after class. You can choose to take trips to Hollywood, Disneyland or the famous beaches around LA. You can also go to various shopping centers, sports centers, movies and concerts. There are also weekend visits organized to San Francisco and other places of interest in California. We try to give our students the best possible experience of English and life in the USA. Just ask our students! They say our summer English Courses are fantastic! We hope that you‘ll enjoy a course with us, too. If you‘re interested, please fill in our application form where you will also find our list of prices. The course must be paid for one month before it begins. (17. T 18. F 19. F 20. T 21. T 22. F 23. T) D. Listen to the passage and complete the following sentences (听短文，完成下列内容，每空 格限填一词): 11 Have you ever heard the Edinburgh Festival? It is an international arts festival. Every summer, visitors from all over the world travel to Edinburgh to enjoy the festival. It lasts for three exciting weeks and is full of international performances of opera, theater and dance. The creation and celebration of this festival dates back to 1947, just after the World War II. It was born to encourage, enrich and to give new strength to cultural life in Europe. It was also created to improve international relationships among countries by bringing together the best European performers. The Edinburgh Festival is not only one big festival as most people might think but a group of ―small‖ festivals happening at the same time in the capital of Scotland. They all have their own programmes and you will need different tickets to their own events. Last year, the best artists from China, India, Japan, Korea joined others from all parts of the world in a celebration of the eastern culture. People enjoyed performances of the National Ballet of China and Seoul Philharmonic Orchestra and many more shows. (24. summer 25. exciting 26. 1947 27. countries 28. capital 29. tickets 30. joined) Part 2 ?. 31. A 32. A 33. C 34. D 35. D 36. D 37. B 38. D 39. D 40. B 41. A 42. C 43. B 44. B 45. C 46. C 47. A 48. A 49. A 50. C ?. 51. B 52. F 53. C 54. A 55. D 56. I 57. G 58. E ?. 59. months 60. Ninth 61. decision 62. ourselves 63. Educational 64. successful 65. realize 66. easily ?. 67. doesn‘t…any 68. aren‘t they 69. have been 70. Why did 71. snowed heavily 72. It‘s nice 73. if/whether…had Part 3 ?. A) 74.B 75.C 76.D 77.A 78.B 79.D B) 80.C 81.D 82.A 83.A 84.B 85.A C) 86. finally 87. covered 88. Since 89. tasks 90. trip 91. November 92. serious D) 93. It has a history of 400 years. 94. Yes, it is. 95. Because it is from this location that the beginning of New France began to develop. 96. A UNESCO World Heritage Site. 97. Catch me if you can. 98. Any reasonable answer is acceptable. ?. 略 12 下面红色字体部分是赠送的散文欣赏摘自网络，不需要的朋友下载后可以编辑删除～～～谢谢～～～ 可依靠的唯有自己 这是发生在一个普通犹太人家庭里，父亲和儿子的故事: 儿子叫约翰，在他4岁那年，有一天他和姐姐在客厅玩捉迷藏。他们玩得正高兴，父亲抱起小约翰，把他放在沙发椅上面，然后伸出双手做出接的姿势，叫他往下跳。小约翰毫不犹豫地往下跳，在即将抓住父亲的瞬间，父亲缩回了双手，约翰摔到了地板上，他号啕大哭起来。小约翰向坐在沙发上的妈妈求助，妈妈若 13 无其事地坐着，并不去扶他，只是微笑着说:―呵，好坏的爸爸～‖父亲站在一边，以嘲弄的眼光望着上当受骗的小约翰。 这便是犹太家庭教子的方法之一，这样做的目的是灌输给孩子一个理念:社会是复杂的，不要轻信他人，唯一可依赖的就是自己。 犹太家庭的孩子都要回答这样一个问题:―假如有一天房子被烧着了，你将带着什么东西逃跑,‖如果孩子回答是钱财，母亲会进一步问:―有一种没有形状、没有颜色、没有气味的宝贝，你知道是什么吗,‖如果孩子回答不出来，母亲会告诉他:―孩子，你要带走的不是钱财，而是智慧。因为智慧是任何人都抢不走的，你只要活着，智慧就永远跟着你。‖ 你对爸爸的爱，远远胜过那部车 一个犹太家庭的父亲，存钱存了很久，终于买了一辆自己向往已久的新车。新车开到家后，他珍爱有加，每天都要洗车打蜡。他5岁的儿子见父亲这么爱车，也常常乐此不疲地帮爸爸一起洗车。 有一天，这位父亲开车回到家后，累得一动也不想动。于是他决定破一次例，改天再洗车，尽管自己的爱车因淋了雨，而显得脏乱不堪。 这时，5岁的儿子见父亲这么累，就自告奋勇地要帮爸爸洗车，见他这么小的年纪，就知道体谅自己，心里甚感欣慰，便放手让儿子去洗。 儿子要动手洗车了，却找不到洗车用的毛巾。于是他走进厨房，立刻便想到母亲平时煮菜洗锅时，都是用钢刷使劲刷才刷干净的，所以既然没有毛巾，就用钢刷吧～他拿起钢刷用力地洗起车来，一遍又一遍，像刷锅一样地刷车。 等他洗完之后，听见―哇‖的一声，他失声大哭起来，车子怎么都花了,这下可闯大祸了，他急忙跑去找父亲，边哭边说:―爸爸，对不起，爸爸，你来看～‖父亲疑惑地跟着儿子走到车旁，他也―哇‖的一声，―我的车，我的车～‖ 这位父亲怒气冲冲地走进房间，气急败坏地跪在地上祷告:―上帝呀，请你告诉我，我该怎么做,那是我新买的车，一个月不到，就变成这样，我该怎么处罚我的孩子,‖ 他才祷告完，耳边忽然出现一个声音―世人都是看表面，而我却是看内心～‖突然间，他彻悟了。 他走出房门，儿子正害怕地流着泪，动也不敢动。 父亲走上前去，把孩子紧紧地拥在怀里，亲切地说:―谢谢你帮爸爸洗车，爸爸对你的爱，远远胜过对那部车子。‖ 14 凡事要透过表面去看本质，当家人或朋友无意间做错了某件事时，我们要理智对待，不要只看事情的表面，而忽略他们内心真实的想法。学会用爱心去包容爱心，家会让你感觉自己的周围，时时洋溢温暖的阳光。 小饭馆的生意很好，因为物美价廉，因为他的谦和和妻子的热情。每天早晨，三四点钟他就早早起来去采购，直到天亮才把所需要的蔬菜、鲜肉拉回家。没有雇人手，两个人忙得像陀螺。常常，因为缺乏睡眠，他的眼睛红红的。 不久，一个推着三轮车的老人来到他门前。她驼背，走路一跛一跛的，用手比划着，想为他提供蔬菜和鲜肉，绝对新鲜，价格还便宜。老人是个哑巴，脸上满是灰尘，额角和眼边的几块疤痕让她看上去面目丑陋。妻子不同意，老人的样子，看上去实在不舒服。可他却不顾妻子的反对，答应下来。不知怎的，眼前的老人让他突然想起了母亲。 老人很讲信用，每次应他要求运来的蔬菜果然都是新鲜的。于是，每天早晨六点钟，满满一三轮车的菜准时送到他的饭馆门前。他偶尔也请老人吃碗面，老人吃得很慢，很享受的样子。他心里酸酸的，对老人说，她每天都可以在这儿吃碗面。老人笑了，一跛一跛地走过来。他看着她，不知怎的，又想起了母亲，突然有一种想哭的冲动。 一晃，两年又过去了，他的饭馆成了酒楼，他也有了一笔数目可观的积蓄，买了房子。可为他送菜的，依旧是那个老人。 又过了半个月，突然有一天，他在门前等了很久，却一直等不到老人。时间已经过了一个小时，老人还没有来。他没有她的联系方式，无奈，只好让工人去买菜。两小时后，工人拉回了菜，仔细看看，他心里有了疙瘩，这车菜远远比不上老人送的莱。老人送来的菜全经过精心挑选，几乎没有干叶子，棵棵都清爽。 只是，从那天后，老人再未出现。 春节就要到了，他包着饺子，突然对妻子说想给老人送去一碗，顺便看看她发生了什么事。怎么一个星期都没有送菜,这可是从没有过的事。妻子点头。 煮了饺子，他拎着，反复打听一个跛脚的送菜老人，终于在离他酒楼两个街道的胡同里，打听到她了。 他敲了半天门，无人应答。门虚掩着，他顺手推开。昏暗狭小的屋子里，老人在床上躺着，骨瘦如柴。老人看到他，诧异地睁大眼，想坐起来，却无能为力。他把饺子放到床边，问老人是不是病了。老人张张嘴，想说什么，却没说出来。他坐下来，打量这间小屋子，突然，墙上的几张照片让他吃惊地张大嘴巴。竟然是他和妈妈的合影～他5岁时，10岁时，17岁时……墙角，一只用旧布包着的包袱，包袱皮上，绣着一朵梅花。他转过头，呆呆地看着老人，问她是谁。老人怔怔地，突然脱口而出:儿啊。 他彻底惊呆了～眼前的老人，不是哑巴,为他送了两年菜的老人，是他的母亲, 15 那沙哑的声音分明如此熟悉，不是他母亲又能是谁,他呆愣愣地，突然上前，一把抱住母亲，号啕痛哭，母子俩的眼泪沾到了一起。 不知哭了多久，他先抬起头，哽咽着说看到了母亲的坟，以为她去世了，所以才离开家。母亲擦擦眼泪，说是她让邻居这么做的。她做工的爆竹厂发生爆炸，她侥幸活下来，却毁了容，瘸了腿。看看自己的模样，想想儿子进过监狱，家里又穷，以后他一定连媳妇都娶不上。为了不拖累他，她想出了这个主意，说自己去世，让他远走他乡，在异地生根，娶妻生子。得知他离开了家乡，她回到村子。辗转打听，才知道他来到了这个城市。她以捡破烂为生，寻找他四年，终于在这家小饭馆里找到他。她欣喜若狂，看着儿子忙碌，她又感到心痛。为了每天见到儿子，帮他减轻负担，她开始替他买菜，一买就是两年。可现在，她的腿脚不利索，下不了床了，所以，再不能为他送菜。 这种信任和理解真的很重要。 这个故事对于众多家长来说有很强的的启迪和警示作用:―你到底爱的是孩子，还是孩子努力的结果,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～‖亦或是―你到底是爱自己的孩子，还是爱那个你心目中的孩子,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～‖，往往，在和孩子互动过程中，我们关注自己的感受，关注孩子是否改错，关注孩子是否优秀，而我们忽略了关注孩子本身，这些都是打着爱的旗号伤害着孩子，但我们往往认为这就是爱。请牢记，孩子本身最重要～ 让孩子去开辟自己的天空 《一个犹太人的家庭教育》讲的是一个伟大的犹太母亲把三个孩子培养成才的理念和方法。这位母亲生在上海，父亲是犹太人，在她12岁那年去世了，随后母亲也离她而去，她成了孤儿。长大后在上海铜厂做女工，结婚后生下三个孩子，但不久后丈夫又离她而去了。为了逃避痛苦，她成为中以建交后第一批回到以色列的犹太后裔。 为了生存，也为了三个孩子能早日回到以色列，她先发奋学习希伯来语，然后，在路边摆了个小摊卖春卷。以色列的官方货币是谢克尔，一谢克尔兑换人民币2块钱，更小的币值是雅戈洛，一谢克尔等于100雅戈洛。她的春卷小摊每天只能赚到十来个谢克尔…… 1993年，她接回了三个孩子，大儿子14岁，二儿子13岁，小女儿11岁。开始她一直秉承再苦不能苦孩子的原则，依旧做着合格的中国式妈妈。把孩子送去学校读书，她卖春卷，孩子放学，她就停止营业，在小炉子上面给他们做馄饨或者面条。这一幕被邻居看到了，就来训斥大儿子:―你已经是大孩子了，你应该学会去帮助你的母亲，而不是看着你母亲忙碌，自己就像废物一样。‖然后转过头训斥母亲:―不要把那种落后的中国式教育带到以色列来……‖ 16 大儿子和她都很难受，但他们都在慢慢地改变，大儿子不但学会了做春卷，还把春卷带到学校卖，每天，三个小孩子能赚到10个谢克尔，回家交给母亲。母亲觉得很心酸，让他们小小年纪就担起生活的担子，但犹太人不这么认为，在犹太家庭里，孩子们没有免费的食物和照顾，任何东西都是有价格的，每个孩子都必须学会赚钱，才能获得自己需要的一切。 于是妈妈不再提供免费的餐食和服务，同时也给他们赚钱的机会，以每个春卷30雅戈洛的价钱批发给他们，带到学校后，可自行加价出售，利润部分自由支配。 三个孩子卖春卷的方式竟然截然不同。小女儿最老实，按老价钱50雅戈洛一个零售;二儿子则以40雅戈洛的价钱批发给学校餐厅，每天让他送100个春卷;大儿子则举办了一个―带你走进中国‖的讲座，讲座的噱头就在于可以免费品尝美味的中国春卷，但需要买入场券，每人10雅戈洛，结果收入1500雅戈洛。 随后他们琢磨出了更多更新颖的赚钱方法，他们很努力地去学习和思考，学业并没有受到任何影响。 同样作为父母，是不是应该引起我们的反思,我们每天一睁开眼睛就为了孩子忙活，做饭、洗衣服、接送、辅导作业，然后才是做自己的事情，每天忙的团团转，累得筋疲力尽。一发牢骚，孩子还会心生厌烦，根本不理解我的付出。再回头看看，每一位中国母亲不都是这样吗,这样我们就很伟大吗,我们付出了很多，却造就了一个又一个―小皇帝‖、―小公主‖…… 我们希望孩子成才，却又过度的保护他们，使得孩子变得无能无法自立;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，让孩子多了很多无奈;过多的指责，让孩子变得不知所措，找不到前进的方向…… 想要为孩子创造一个无忧无虑，快乐成长的天空，但却发现自己完完全全的占据了创造者的位置，其实，这个位置也要有一部分让孩子承担。现在的照顾，也许会暂时保护着他们，但是他们总有一天会长大，会在长大后遇到许许多多的困难，那个时候，我们是如何也帮不了他们的……也许，让孩子过早的面对金钱面对名利面对社会，会有不舍和心疼，但他们总有一天要面对，总有一天要承担。 我们为何不像那位犹太母亲那样，放开手，让孩子自己去开辟属于他们自己的天空呢, 17