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孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don´t want to sleep alone)

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孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don´t want to sleep alone)孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don´t want to sleep alone) 孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don't want to sleep alone) We should first find out the cause of the child's fear, and then prescribe the right medicine to help the child fear. First, to understand the reasons for fear of children...
孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don´t want to sleep alone)
孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don´t want to sleep alone) 孩子不愿意一个人睡(Children don't want to sleep alone) We should first find out the cause of the child's fear, and then prescribe the right medicine to help the child fear. First, to understand the reasons for fear of children Children's psychological research shows that the fear of children mainly because of the following aspects. 1. adults scare. Some parents for their children to educate the simple and convenient, often used to scare the way to deal with children, so that children act according to their will, resulting in children abnormal fear. For example, when the child cries, some parents and teachers lack the best recipe for stopping, and they pretend to "wolf cry" and "howl" and so on to scare the children. In this way, although the child was quiet for a while, but the resulting fear also retained. And if some children are afraid to go to kindergarten, it is because the children before admission, parents or other elders often use this way to educate children: "if you do not listen, I will take you to the kindergarten, let the teacher to take you." 2. over protection. Many parents fear children and other children together will learn bad, or afraid of children being bullied, so let the children go out with other children play, play games together. Children lack experience with their peers, lack of skills and experience to cope with each other, and may develop interpersonal disorder and fear of interpersonal communication. In addition, children lack of communication with peers, things must contact less, therefore there will be timid and overcautious. Many children were playing together, they may be a natural, we are not afraid of dogs, and the children from the dog got to deal with dog experience; but the child withdrawn, play together with other children, will not have to experience, and may even be afraid of dogs. 3. fear may be a way for children to escape from reality or gain attention. For example, some children are afraid of kindergarten will lose the center position in the family, or lose some benefits, so he asserted that if the kindergarten, naturally or half unconsciously afraid of a little friend, afraid of a teacher and so on. Again, some children want to sleep together with their parents, when parents start with bed or sleep alone, claiming that it is afraid of the dark, afraid of ghosts, afraid of tigers and so on, in order to make the parents agreed to his request: come back to sleep with their parents. 4. fear is the result of accumulated experience. Psychological research shows that children's fears are closely related to their experiences. For example, some children are afraid of taking a bath, that is because he has had a bath and a painful experience. Children afraid of injection, it is also due to injection, has brought pain to the child. For example, my child is not afraid of injections in two years ago, but one day after the age of two, due to a fever for several days, the result was a few doctors hold hands and head, drip from the head, the child was crying tearing exhausted...... And since then, the child afraid of injections, even see people wear big white coat to cry. Research has also shown that children are afraid of objects that are closely related to the objects of fear of the person they are close to, which is the result of fear of experience transmission. Many children are timid and overcautious as affected by the parents of the timid and overcautious and the formation of subtle. 5. horror film and television books. The child's ability to understand and understand the world is limited. He often reads books with horrible content, or watches too many horror films, or listens to too many ghosts and demons...... These can also lead to a child's fear. Two, correctly help children fear 1. set a good example for your child. Young children often do not know how to fear, and his fear of something is often influenced by his parents and teachers. As everyone knows, the child attachment to parents and teachers, in their eyes, their parents and teachers is a safe harbor, once found his parents and teachers fear of something logistics look, he will feel their own security threats and fear. For example, in daily life, some mothers teachers fear mice, cockroaches, dogs and so on, and this fear and behavior will be unconsciously transmitted to children. Therefore, parents and teachers to help children eliminate fear, first of all must be grams of their own should not fear. In front of the child, the fear of things to show calm and calm, calm and courageous appearance, so that children will add grams of fear confidence and courage. In order to help children fear, we can also set a brave example in the children's group. For example, some children are afraid of dogs, we can let these children to watch other children to play with the dog, and the dog how to close (but then we must pay attention to, we choose some dogs are very docile, otherwise the other kids play with the dog when the dog attacks will make children more afraid of dogs firmly believe that: "the dog is terrible"); another example, some children afraid of injections, then we arrange the children in the collective injections, in addition to remind doctors to give the boy an injection injection to bring their children as far as possible to reduce the pain, we should be brave children in front, was later set a good example and, in their bravery (injections do not cry), to praise him in time, in addition to the teacher to use the language to praise him, also can let all the children as children's bravery Applause. In this atmosphere, a lot of timid children will act bravely. Must not be afraid of injection of children arranged in front of playing, otherwise it will make more children believe that injection is terrible. 2. don't punish or laugh at a child because he is afraid of something. For early childhood children, fear is a natural inner emotional feelings, not what. If you always called him a "coward", "loser", the children not only not so bold, in the course of time he will more convinced that he is really a coward. If parents and teachers see children showed fear, naive, exaggerated or contemptuous tone to communicate with their children, will enhance the child's sense of fear because it does not reduce the children for fear of things, but also to worry about children ridiculed due to being shown on the fear of sth. If parents see a child afraid of something, calmly say to the child, "a lot of children like you are afraid of it. That's normal."." This does not make the child feel ashamed of being afraid of something and gradually reduce it until it is removed. 3. do not fear too much attention to children's fears, especially to gain attention. If we give too much attention to the child to get love or attention due to fear, or because the child such fear and satisfy his unreasonable demands, then the child will let * "fear" into a means to achieve other purposes such as fear as a way to escape the difficulties. Of course, if we do not feel afraid when the child can give him the attention, then the children will not seek adult attention and fear, or the "means of fear" will naturally disappear. 4., through the game activities to correct the child's fear. According to the child's fear of the object, the design of some games, can make children in a relaxed atmosphere to recognize the object of fear. For example, when children are afraid of the dark, and children can play such a game: the room lights, grab a ball game in the dark environment, see who grabbed the ball more. After many games in the dark, the child is not afraid of darkness. 5., help children to eliminate the fear of things wrong and mysterious. Children's fears are sometimes caused by lack of knowledge or lack of experience or by false knowledge. If a child is afraid of lightning, it is because he does not know what the thunder is. The parents and teachers can explain some simple scientific truth to the child, and he can also see together calculated by lightning to hear the thunder of the time difference, it can not only reduce the child for fear of thunder, but also can cultivate children of thunder and the natural phenomenon of interest. As well as, There is a 5 and a half years old girl in the hospital for a sudden fear reaction in the park after the mother, accompanied by fever, personality has become timid, dependence and love. After repeated analysis found that the little girl has been worried that once she went to kindergarten, the mother will be ill in hospital, no one in the evening to hold her sleep. Later, parents in the love of giving the side made efforts to compensate, the child's mind gradually dispelled concerns, and its corresponding fear has disappeared. For fear of a certain experience, such as fear of injection, fear of taking medicine, parents and teachers can tell the children clearly about the medicine injection is to cure the truth, and foster children overcome fear of pride. 6. help your child gain confidence and the means to deal with the object or situation he is afraid of. Fear is the emotion that people try to get out of, escape from, or escape from a situation, and if we learn how to escape or escape it, it naturally disappears. I grew up in the countryside, I remember when there was a time I was afraid of dogs, but since my grandfather taught me with a brick, such as a dog or a dog stick drive way to deal with, I was no longer afraid of those who love the neighborhood fierce and barking dogs. Similarly, the child is afraid of sleeping alone in the room do not turn on the lights, the switch can install a night light in his bed, let them learn on and off, so he seized control of the dark and bright way, he will not be afraid. 7. prevention of fear. Since fear is dependent on personal experience, we must try to prevent the first experience of fear. For example, give children the bath water temperature should not be too high or too low, use detergent to the baby shampoo to wash your face, don't let these exciting things into the child's eyes, ears to shower activity into a game activity rather than a compulsive activity, so as to children, it is not a bath for fear of things but a kind of entertainment. Giving their children too, we should give children eat medicine is * swallowing, and in medicine to feed the children through the game is the best way to let the children take medicine or medicine to voluntarily eat inadvertently, and should not be forced to: the child's nose and then grabbed, forced the child's mouth open...... The consequence of this is not so much a child's fear of taking medicine as a child who is afraid of taking it more accurately. 8. let the child gradually become accustomed to the fear". If the child is afraid of dogs, you can first use the toy dog let him dare to close, to close with the real dog; in close with the real dog training, can take a few days, every day let him near the small dog a few feet, and then how to teach children how to close to the dog, and the dog, how to "speak" played with the dog, so the child will gradually step by step, not afraid of dogs. Again, the child afraid of the dark, leaving small lights, or parents to watch him sleep, children will be more Rong * asleep, the future will gradually not afraid of the night. Do not be hard to put the children into the horrible environment, otherwise it will make children become more afraid of the scene. One woman recalls that when she was a child, she was afraid to sleep in the dark and said, "my mother always says it's stupid to be afraid of the dark, and turn off the lights and bring the door.". Of course, this only makes me more afraid." Finally need to emphasize that, usually, parents and teachers do not tell children the story of ghosts and gods, and do not let the children watch horror movies, not to use ghosts, tigers and other things to scare the children. Because the infant children are affected by the characteristics of the development of the imagination, they often don't know what is the real existence of things, which is the result of imagination, they tend to put the film, the story of the terrorist plot or picture as the reality of things. 1. buy a small cotton animal for the child, or give him a small pillow of his own kind, so that the child can safely fall asleep by embracing these comforts of his own. Soon, you'll find that even if you're not around the child, he can sleep peacefully. Two If the baby falls asleep alone and cries at night, you should hurry up to him. When you exclude him from crying because he is sick, you don't need to lift him up. Instead, bend over and pat him. Because the child in learning all new skills, including learning to sleep alone, must face their own emotional setbacks, otherwise, the attempt to sleep alone will be done by half way. 3. for children over the age of 6, let them feel, even at night, as long as he needs, mom and dad will immediately go to his room. Sometimes, the child because the nightmare awakened, because of fear and not continue to sleep, preferably by one of the parents to the children's room with the children, instead of taking the children to the parents' bed, in order to avoid this bad habit. 4. a destination for kids to sleep independently little friend's house to introduce a learning example for him. Parents can ask their children in front of their children, sleep with them, and surprise, and say, "you can do it! A person sleeps in a room, so brave and independent!". "Take your child to a small room and a small bed, and praise a few soft beds and beautiful rooms. At this time, the child will envy and produce a desire to own a small bed, and hope in front of children, but also show that he grew up. This approach allows children to take adult advice calmly. 5. if a child succeeds in sleeping alone at night, parents can give him a small reward as an encouragement. 6. if the child touches the bed of his parents again at night, do not rebuke the child, nor shout for surprise. Calmly take the child back to his own room, cover him with a quilt, accompany him for a while, and tell him that his mother and father are in the house, so he is safe. 7., in order to buy children's sheets, pillows and other bedroom supplies, as far as possible to allow children to choose their favorite styles and colors, but also should let the children themselves decide how to decorate his room.
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