如何面对情绪失控的宝宝（How to cope with an emotionally upset baby）

如何面对情绪失控的宝宝（How to cope with an emotionally upset baby） 如何面对情绪失控的宝宝(How to cope with an emotionally upset baby) How to face the emotional control of the baby Is Killing with Kindness (Beijing) This experience or with the kids. Luigi Nono is really a bit of a two man. Remember when Luigi Nono was about two years old, and he had his urine pants. Once, at Grandma's, she peed her pants again. I had no seizures, but not scold a few words, the sound is not small: "you say what happened to you? And the urine trousers, don't call Mom, why long mouth?" the little eyes looked at me very seriously replied: "the dinner." When Grandpa was there, he suddenly became happy and said, "your girl will answer."." Make me cannot bearhappy. Two days ago, the little cousin got a toy, Luigi Nono helped to clean up, the boy has not done, roared. But after two seconds, I heard the boy laughing. Originally, the son urgently pushed sister, sister sat on the toy piano, Qin issued an old cow called, sister learned again, and follow the music, the boy is also happy. If the head is certainly lose, all gas inside, the secretion of a pile of poison damage yourself. As to the satisfaction of all Killing with Kindness. Adult things, the child's event Little things for adults, big things for children (New Zealand) Let's start with an emotional disorder that just happened to your daughter. Last Thursday, the 6 year old daughter won the best player award in the basketball match, which she had been looking forward to. (in fact, the coach was the best player to encourage the kids.). Unfortunately, the trophy that was supposed to come back that day was forgotten by the last prize winner, so it was a pity that she didn't get the trophy. The coach promised second days to give her daughter. The second day, when I picked up my daughter from school, she started complaining or didn't get the trophy. I said, "wait for Monday," she said. "That would be too short for her to keep the trophy.". On the way to the parking lot, she began to lose her temper and burst into tears. I was so noisy and almost out of control. Along the way, she did not stop crying, I tried to refrain from talking, no rebuke, no comfort. My heart slowly calmed down, feel the child is quite depressing, in my eyes of little importance trophy in her eyes is a treasure. So, when I got off the bus, I hugged my daughter tightly. My daughter cried more loudly, but I could hear the relief. I said I would contact the coach and try to bring the trophy to school on Monday. My daughter calmed down and apologized to me that she shouldn't have gotten angry with me. In the face of emotional control of the baby, we can not control ourselves, so as to find out the real reason for the baby out of control, but also in good order to quell the baby out of control. In particular, do not ignore the child's feelings, respect for the child's mind "big things", although in our eyes, those things may be nothing to do "small things."". Silence and embrace the light green tea (Jiangxi) In the past, when the baby was out of control, I would choose to get out of control and cry. That's what I call cold treatment, but later I thought it was kind of cruel. So, when it comes to this kind of situation, no matter how angry her behavior makes me, as long as I am very excited and out of control, I will be silent immediately, then hug her, and then talk about the thing itself. The effect is much better than before. Patience in the face of Qunjiao flying (Shandong) Tell me something about what happened last night. Mao is learning to write pinyin letters. When I wrote u, I saw that a wasn't written well in front of her, so I wrote a correct a on her exercise book with a pen. It annoyed Xiao Mao. She tore it off angrily, then said nothing, and sat and burst into tears. I immediately realized his mistake, quickly apologized, but she still had a good cry, just good. I was talking to her about it when I went to bed, and she had calmed down a lot. I told her: "first, mother to apologize to you, my mother should not be agreed by you in your exercise book writing, after my mother must correct. However, after hairy can not temper, to the exercise of this tear." Mao said: "Mom can't write on my homework, if not carefully written, also want to write in pencil, that can be erased. I won't rush mother temper, if angry to draw." And give me a sweet kiss. So, do not underestimate the child, as long as it can let out the children, or have a way. Mind your parents' runaway emotions, CINDYFLYING (Beijing) The pressure of modern life is so great that many people are in "sub health" state, and there is a "powder keg" hidden at any time". When the children are not satisfied, when the mood is bad, get dilly dally and yell or jjww temper, barrels of gunpowder could detonate the parents "". My husband and I are such "gunpowder barrel" impatient temper, and repeatedly quarrel with the children and confrontation, after the event is also very regret. Therefore, my husband and I reached an agreement, if party with the children quarrel and feeling out of control, at the other people outside the team must act as the "fire", quickly cooling on both sides of the conflict. In fact, most in need of "Empathy" is an adult, if you are a child, you love being snapped and forced to discipline? Cold treatment + + + language touch mother sometimes hot and sometimes cold embrace (Shenzhen) Xiao language to the rebellious period, some people love to. Last night, I told him to hide and seek. Then I said, "now, stop playing. It's time to go to bed."." "Mom, try again." If I may agree, since there is N times: "Mom, one more time", "Mom, I promise this is the last time"...... To have a bedtime story time, can not play anymore. "You don't play with me, and I don't play with you."." Finish saying Xiao language, a person goes to the sofa there, in the mouth still not stop talking about this sentence. At this point, if you speak with her reason, or gather to her side, it will backfire. I picked up the "Grandpa, why can't I do the things you want to do?" as a pleasurable occupation spoke. This moment, A voice interrupted me: "I said I do not listen to your story, why did you tell me?" I don't talk to her, though I know little story or can be stubborn, listen. She ran to me from time to time: "you tell stories, I just don't listen."." Ha ha, I know, actually she is telling me: "go ahead, I'm listening."!" Seeing her approach me, I hugged her quickly: "ha ha, was caught by mother?" "I don't play with you, just don't follow."." I continued my story, she continued in front of me. See I didn't respond, so, "challenge" up: "Mom, you caught me two times, I'll play with you."." Since little give me the next step, I will get a chance it. I continue to pretend not to hear it, when she was in front of me again. When I hugged her, let her to be taken by surprise. Haha, we were just playing together. I held her and touched her little belly (a compulsory lesson for my family) and soon went to a sweet dreamland. I like adults, there are moments, this can take cold treatment, cooling to a certain temperature, then in a calm mood to sit down with her, that mother's idea and asked her. Such a buffering process may lead to better results.