为人父母要注意!男孩与女孩养育的几大区别

为人父母要注意!男孩与女孩养育的几大区别 如何夸孩子 畅销育儿书《孩子，把你的手给我》中，关于表扬孩子有一个很恰当的比喻——“称赞，就像青霉素一样，绝不能随意用。使用强效药有一定的，需要谨慎小心，标准包括时间和剂量，因为可能会引起过敏反应. 1.夸具体不夸全部 “宝宝真棒”，这样的表扬对家长来说真是轻车熟路。在家长眼里，孩子的每一个成长细节都是值得惊叹和赞美的——宝宝会笑了，宝宝会翻身了，宝宝会蹦了，宝宝说话了……就是在这种不断的惊喜中，家长已经习惯于对着孩子说出“真棒!”、“真好!”这样的评价，甚至一句轻轻的“啊”都充满着赞赏的语气。 家长随口的夸奖，可能意识不到会带来怎样的消极影响，直到有一天，发现孩子变得害怕失败，经不起一丁点儿挫折 总是笼统地表扬孩子，比如你真棒，会让孩子无所适从。也许孩子只是端了一次饭，妈妈与其兴高采烈地表示“好孩子，你真棒”，不如告诉他“谢谢你帮妈妈端饭，妈妈很开心”。有针对性的具体表扬会让孩子更容易理解，并且知道今后应该怎么做，如何努力 2.夸努力不夸聪明 “你真聪明!”——又一个家长惯用的评语。家长对孩子的每一个进步如果都用“聪明”来定义，结果只能是让孩子觉得好成绩是与聪明划等号，一方面他会变得“自负”而非“自信”，另一方面，他们面对挑战会采取回避，因为不想出现与聪明不相符的结果 美国的研究人员让幼儿园孩子解决了一些难题，然后，对一半的孩子说:“答对了8道题，你们很聪明。”对另一半说:“答对8道题，你们很努力。”接着给他们两种任务选择:一种是可能出一些差错，但最终能学到新东西的任务;另一种是有把握能够做得非常好的。结果2/3的被夸聪明的孩子选择容易完成的;被夸努力的孩子90%选择了具有挑战性的任务 3.夸事实不夸人格 “好宝宝”这样的话是典型的“夸人格”，家长们会无心地将其挂在嘴边。但“好”是一个很虚无的概念，如果孩子总被扣上这样一顶大帽子，对他反而是种压力 成年人也是,当领导不断夸奖你时，开始还会沾沾自喜，但慢慢地就会感觉到压力，甚至不想做得完美，以便得到喘息的机会 如果家长的称赞总是“言过其实”，孩子也会有压力，觉得自己不配这样的赞美。他们会怎么办呢?那就是在你刚刚赞美完他的时候，他就做出让你头疼的事情，以示“真诚” 三大窍门 1.留心孩子的努力 anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership 为达到激励孩子的目的，真正做到“夸具体”、“夸努力”，家长首先要对孩子做事情的整个过程有所了解。有的时候可以亲眼看见孩子的良苦用心和付出的努力，当你在总结孩子成绩的时候，不妨详详细细把自己的所见所闻描述出来。比如孩子写完作文之后，你可以说:“文章的开头很好，你能想出这样的开头实在不容易;中间的描述能感觉出你经过了仔细的观察。结尾的一句话也比较精彩，用它来点题很恰当……”这样，你把孩子在作文上所花费的辛苦一一说了出来，愉快自信的笑容立刻就会洋溢在孩子的脸上。 如果你没有亲眼见到孩子的努力也没关系，你可以用提问的方式让孩子自己说出努力的过程，这中间不失时机地加以适当的点评，同样可以给孩子一个有益的赞美 2.夸孩子别嫌“口罗唆” 仔细分析一下，家长们对待表扬的态度的确是随便了一些，甚至有点心不在焉、张嘴就来。当孩子表现好时，家长的第一反应就是“你真棒”，看起来既省事又符合鼓励为主的教育精神。其实这样的表扬多了，对孩子毫无意义 所以当了解了“夸具体”时，很多家长开始很难适应，不知道除此之外还能说些什么。很简单，教你一招——好话不嫌“口罗唆”，看看上述有益的表扬语，哪一句不比“你真棒”口罗唆?这就意味着要用更多的话语描述孩子的努力，结果自然引起孩子共鸣，夸奖的目的也就达到了 3.把夸奖当“预防针” 夸奖不仅仅是事后对孩子的肯定，有时候在预见到孩子对某些事情可能有抵触时，可以事先夸夸孩子，用表扬来打预防针，可能会有意想不到的“疗效”。 演员宋丹丹在新书《幸福深处》中就有这样一段:有一次儿子巴图生病，我对小阿姨说:“我发现巴图和别的小孩儿不一样，别的小孩儿吃药都哭，可他从来不哭，他不怕吃药。这一点他和别的小孩儿真的不同。”然后我把中药端给他。他捧着碗，烧得红红的小脸一副紧张的表情，闭着眼睛一口气就把药喝下去了。我们大家都赞不绝口。从那次起，多么苦的药他都不怕 试试这样夸孩子 ?有益的称赞:我喜欢你的卡片，很漂亮，也很风趣 (孩子的感觉):我的品味不错，我可以信赖自己的选择 无益的称赞:你总是这么体贴. ?有益的称赞:非常感谢你今天洗了盘子. (孩子的感觉):我很负责. anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership 无益的称赞:你比其他人做得好. ?有益的称赞:你的作文有几个新的想法. (孩子的感觉):我也可以有创造性的. 无益的称赞:你写得不错，当然了，你还有很多地方需要学习. 描述性的语句以及孩子由此得出的积极结论是精神健康的基石。孩子从我们的话中对自己作出结论，事后还会默默地对自己重申。会使他们对自己及周围的世界抱有积极看法. 亲爱的宝宝，你是爸爸妈妈最大的幸福～ 出生: 52cm /7斤 30天: 60cm/10.8斤 60天: 62cm /15斤 90天: 64.5cm/17.4斤/头围42.5 122天 4个月:65.4cm/19.14斤/头围43.5 168天会翻 6个月:身高69cm/21斤/头围45cm 185天会坐 7个月:身高73cm/20.6斤/头围45.4cm 为人父母要注意～男孩与女孩养育的几大区别 2011-02-05 08:42 雅虎育儿社区 我说两句(加入讨论) 转发至 要培养出好男孩和好女孩，就要多多注意在培养教养方面的差别～爸爸妈妈们要时刻留心哦～本文就盘点一下男孩女孩教养的几大差异。 anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership 男孩篇 ?淘气包 科学家发现，男性荷尔蒙让男孩动个不停，他们的世界充满动作，喜欢探索新奇，因此往往被爱称为“淘气包”。在爸爸妈妈的眼里，他们是整天烦躁不安、坐立不宁的臭小子们，没有女孩子来得乖巧可爱。 男孩子一般都很“闹腾”，不用担心，先随他去，让他先跑够了，玩够了，释放出体内所有的能量，然后和他一起玩一些安静游戏，比如一起画画、看书，你会发现，疯跑一阵子之后，他更容易进入安静的状态，这个时候一定要避免一切干扰，比如电视，把周围的玩具都先清扫出去，只留你们两个人就够了，这种安静可是来之不易的～ ?英雄情结 男孩子更喜欢那些可以打抱不平、伸张正义的英雄形象，比如提到警察叔叔，男孩子常常流露出崇拜的表情。所以男孩子们比较喜欢打打杀杀的游戏，他们拿着各种我们看来危险万分的玩具在小小的房间里面跑来跑去，无视于爸爸妈妈的大惊失色，玩得不亦乐乎，而警察抓小偷的游戏也成为他们的经典游戏，他们在游戏中满足自己的“英雄情结”。 ?我的玩具 因为有了天生的“英雄情结”，所以男孩子们对那些造型奇特、能让他们动起来的玩具情有独钟。看过动画片以后，奥特曼成为他们必买的玩具，有哪个男孩子没有几个不同造型的奥特曼, anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership ?我的衣服 相比较而言，男孩子的衣服比女孩子的衣服简单得多，从小到大可选择的颜色以男子汉气十足的蓝色为主。小BABY时就是粉蓝色或者白色，等到渐渐长大后，深深浅浅的蓝仍是主色调，当然绿色、红色、白色等五彩的调子也会常常跳上男孩子的衣服，但蓝色是属于男孩子的，好像成了人们约定俗成的“规矩”，被爸爸妈妈们默默地遵守着。男孩们衣服的图案多集中为小老虎、小狮子等大型动物，或者足球、机器人等物品。别看他们的年纪小，可男孩子们从穿衣打扮上就表现得阳刚气十足。 爸妈知道 1、异性装扮要不得 有些爸爸妈妈因为各种各样的原因，总喜欢把男宝宝穿上女孩的装扮。专家认为，这样做是无益干宝宝的性格及个性的塑造的。“男扮女装”会让男孩子的性格过于阴柔，同时也会让其他的男孩子不愿意接触这样穿着的男孩，从而造成男宝宝长大后变成“娘娘腔”。 、照顾男孩的自尊心 2 男孩子更加要面子，有种不服输的劲头，所以较强的本体感和自信心会有助于男孩子的成长。在日常生活中，要注意鼓励他，让他自己决定要吃什么，穿什么;表扬他的好行为，不要因为他淘气而批评他。就算他表现得让人不满意，也不能太直接地伤害他，可以对他说:“你今天表现得不错，现在可能累了，我为你感到骄傲。”而不是大声地斥责他: “你今天真是太差了，太让我失望了～” 3、赋予更多的情感 一般来说，家长对儿子的教育总是比女儿要严厉得多。研究表明，父母给予女婴的关注和呵护远远比男婴要多。孩子慢慢学会走了，女宝宝一摔跤，很快就会被扶起来，安慰一番;而我们总是希望男孩子要坚强一点，从哪摔倒了，就要自己爬起来。其实，所有的孩子都希望被爱护，因此对男孩子要公平一点，不要吝啬你的亲吻和拥抱，他们同样需要的。 8大妙计培养新好男孩 1、让儿子自由地释放出所有的情感。以前男孩子如果表现出胆小、羞涩，都会被嘲笑，现在不要嘲笑他，让他大胆发泄。 2、和儿子探讨事情。这会帮助他提高自己的语言能力和社交能力，男孩子在这两种能力上，往往会被同龄的女孩子甩在后面。 anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership 3、给予儿子亲吻和拥抱。不要觉得这只是女孩子的专利，不要害怕这样会让男孩子变得娘娘腔，你的亲吻和拥抱，无形中会把浓浓的爱传递给他，让他感觉到受重视。 4、如果他喜欢玩那些抱在手里的玩具和娃娃——很好，培养那种安静斯文的气质。如果他不喜欢，不要强迫，随他自己，愿意玩什么就玩什么，不要控制。 5、不要害怕表达你的情感。看到儿子不在你的视线范围内，你会有什么表现,是不是很容易就会发火，然后大声地喊他的名字,事实上，你的生气掩盖不了你的恐惧。如果你对他表现出你的真实情感，他反而会学着表达自己的情感，所以不要掩藏，告诉他你看不到他，真的很害怕。 6、明确规则，让他有章可循。在相同的环境中，男孩子更容易感受到不安全，产生恐惧感。他们急切地想要知道周围环境的潜在规则是什么，自己会不会得到公正的对待。 7、到了该上幼儿园的年龄，男孩子却往往表现出一种冷淡，无所谓的态度。所以从小就应该和孩子一起，养成爱学习、爱读书、爱交朋友的好习惯，让他对学习、社交产生一种期望。 8、教导儿子不要抢东西。在和小朋友一起玩的时候，你要先问儿子，什么玩具是他可以和朋友一起玩的，什么玩具是不能让别人碰的，然后把要独享的玩具藏起来，避免冲突的发生。 女孩篇 ?小淑女 你的小女儿可能像传统意义上的女孩子一样，喜欢玩娃娃，喜欢穿粉色的公主裙，成为一个主流的“小淑女”，那么也不要小觑她的这种本能爱好。鼓励她尽情地展现女孩子的小魅力吧～和她—起做游戏，比如和她一起选择漂亮的衣服，给她做头发，让小姑娘因为自己的美貌而欢喜、让她对自己充满信心，要赞扬她:“宝贝穿上这件衣服可真漂亮啊～”“多漂亮的头发啊～”她会非常喜欢这种关注的目光。 ?过家家 跟男孩子相反，女孩子大多喜欢安静温柔的游戏，过家家是她们的最爱。她们喜欢布置一个自己想像中的家，自己当妈妈，安排一个男孩子当爸爸，一个玩具娃娃就是他们的孩子。“小妈妈”模仿自己的妈妈喂孩子吃饭、给孩子换衣服、哄孩子睡觉、给孩子打针„„在过家家这个游戏里，女孩子永远是主角，安排好所有的情节，然后乐在其中;而男孩子则是永远的配角，在女孩子的指点下笨手笨脚，时不时还遭到她的埋怨。 anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership ?我的玩具 女孩子的玩具柜里最主要的角色就是娃娃，娃娃可以说是女孩子的最爱。大名鼎鼎的芭比娃娃可以说是全世界女宝宝都想拥有的“公主”，还有走粉色路线的Kiity猫，可能是男孩子想都不会想，而女孩子却想疯了的可爱形象。这些形象可能就因为其代表着可爱、美丽，而博得女宝宝的欢心的。 ?我的衣服 对于新生儿来说，男女宝宝衣服的样式并没有太大的区别，但颜色上就大不相同了。通常父母会给女宝宝选择嫩粉、嫩黄或乳白色的衣服，衣服上的图案也多为漂亮的小花、扇动着翅膀的蝴蝶、白云朵红太阳等等。等宝宝度过婴儿期，可以走走逛逛的时候，小女孩的衣服更是像春天的花朵般五彩缤纷，粉粉嫩嫩的荷叶袖上衣、翩然若飞的小裙子、镶着蕾丝花边的小背包„„女孩子们的世界总是这样多彩。 爸妈应该 ?少一点限制 父母们总是认为女孩子就应该含蓄一些，温柔一点，这样才像个淑女，所以我们就会不由自主地给自己的女儿设下重重限制，你有没有说过“小女孩就应该干净一点，不要把裤子弄脏了～”或者“爬格子不是女孩子做的，不要去了～”之类的话, 记住，我们要积极地鼓励她们去做自己想做的任何事情。想要打扮成牛仔,可以～我们都知道父母对孩子有多大的影响，所以如果你总是不断地告诫她，这个不能做，那个不能做，那么等她长大了，肯定是个胆小鬼，不敢去尝试任何事情。 ?多一些鼓励 男孩子的世界充满动作，喜欢探索新奇，女孩子与其不同的是，她们关注的更多是人，因此相比较来说，女孩子的心思更为细腻。她会很重视父母的看法，同时很容易产生自卑心理，因此要在这方面对她进行鼓励与保护。 ?多一些运动 女孩子同样需要健康的身体，看似粗鲁、大强度的游戏对于女孩子来说，也是一个强健体魄的好方法，所以不要过分地保护这些花骨朵。攀爬、跑跳都是提高协调能力的好方法。当然，游戏中安全还是第一位的，如果女飞人想从五层台阶“飞”下去，不要告诉她“不行”，可以对她说:“看起来有点高啊，我们先从两个台阶开始，你是最棒的，一定能行～”让她感觉到你对她的能力是有信心的～ anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership 8大绝招培养新好女孩 1、在公平公正的原则下，让老公负担起一部分照顾女儿的工作，带着女儿去看他老爸在足球场上的飒爽英姿。爸爸的粗犷和坚强会给女儿一个好的榜样。 2、如果带女儿去游乐场，要注意观察她喜欢哪种玩具。如果是家里没有的，你要考虑买一个，来满足她的新兴趣。 3、如果女儿不喜欢体能游戏，可能是因为胆小，不要强迫她，或者你可以拉着她的手，让她在感觉安全的前提下，再去尝试。 4、如果女儿喜欢，要抽出时间和她—起玩女孩子的游戏。例如，给她编小辫，如果你放心，也可以让她来给你做造型。 5、鼓励女儿结交不同的玩伴，不管是同性还是异性，多接触不同个性的孩子，对社交能力有很大的促进作用。 6、如果女儿对踢球、玩枪等一些男性化的游戏感兴趣的话，也要鼓励她去做，有个性的女孩子才有魅力嘛～ 7、女孩子很容易产生自卑感，所以要不断地鼓励女儿挖掘自己的自信心，不管她取得多小的成绩，都要表扬她。如果她遇到了难题不要立刻去帮忙，先让她自己去尝试，让她意识到靠自己也能够成功，提升自信心。 8、并不是只有温柔可人的邻家女孩才能称之为女孩子。现代的女孩子也不再需要三从四德、笑不露齿，她可以有个性、倔强、争强好胜，甚至像男孩子—样淘气且坚强。 anti-Japanese patriotism. Under the influence of the party, Zhu, Wang, acting in strict discipline, political, military quality and combat effectiveness has improved. As well as youth service corps, women's service and young pioneers, countryside-Japanese performance, posting anti-Japanese slogans, operate private schools, literacy classes, founder of the iron, and the tongue and the sound, sparks and other anti-Japanese mimeographed tabloid, actively promote anti-Japanese. Hanchang recovery after the party, that is, "Jiangnan anti-Japanese guerrilla people save," Shen Yingjie, Xu Azhen to participate in development of the Chinese Communist Party, in October and set up a water party group in Hong Kong, Han chang long party group. Meanwhile, Xu on cleaning two wannan, demanding new army deployed cadres, and have sent many new progressive youth to receive training. On November 9, sheng, Wu Xing, Nanxun, jiaxing, Tongxiang, Zonta, Hangzhou, wukang strongholds such as Elves, nearly all men, together with the aircraft, boats, Zhu Xi Lu, pouncing on troop locations. 10th, the enemies have invaded yan Tomb, Xin Cheng, Wuzhen. 11th, Zhu Xi army pier at Bell House was surrounded by the enemy, break, casualties will be great, CPC party member Xu, Xu Quansheng, really so magnificent and head of three Wang Yulin, also died in the battle. Zhu Xi withdrew the remnants of more than 400 people back to Xiao Feng integration. Jie Xu with the new cadres, Communist party Mr CHOW (Zhou kangyu) came from southern Anhui. Zhu Xi Wei CHOY for staff officers. The end of unified leadership