胡建云语录（Hu Jianyun Quotes）

胡建云语录（Hu Jianyun Quotes） 胡建云语录(Hu Jianyun Quotes) A man is not afraid of making mistakes, and most afraid of not knowing where he is or where he is wrong, he does not know how to repent. Do you think it's quality to read more books? A person's quality is to see the character, a person without character, can not talk about quality, a person is the most valuable character. If a person does not know to cherish their loved ones around, she is a selfish person, always thought oneself only. If you can care more about the people around you, you can achieve spiritual happiness. One of the most important things, such as family, for example, character, confidant...... Not good for parents, even friends do not Heaven and earth will not tolerate, and he did. Live in change, do not change. The world is changing, the heart must not change. From the battle. Contradiction is not terrible, terrible is the heart. Contradiction is the heart of the people, and want to resolve contradictions, often the other party needs to have a vast heart. Practice is better than precept, parents are the child's example, parents thinking, confidence, morality, position and behavior, has a subtle effect on the growth of children. Home is the child's first campus, we should give the child a good learning environment, shaping a good example, so that children feel better than words and deeds. If we do not learn well for our own selfish desires, let the children see and imitate, then his life is not as good as ours. Filial piety: the most simple and basic human feelings, but also the most easy to forget and neglect the link. It is the key to building a harmonious society by combining husband and wife, setting an example for children, creating a happy family and creating a harmonious society. In family disputes, women's daughter-in-law conflicts with the majority of them. Because of differences in knowledge, age, work and so on, both sides are unable to understand each other. In fact, it is not difficult to improve the relationship between husband and wife, the key is to have a love and patience, to accept each other emotionally, do not treat each other as an outsider. Especially daughter-in-law, respect your parents in law. Remember one sentence: respecting the old is a kind of civilization. It is a duty to support the old. It is a virtue to treat the old well. Love needs to be run in and needs mutual respect. More patience, more love, love will be long and sweet. If the love will approach some misunderstanding, as long as the heart to feel, then these misunderstanding took away love; only complain, do not understand love, sooner or later into the grave. The same thing, happy is paradise, hard is hell. Most people's troubles come from selfishness and greed, from envy and comparison, from their own luxury. A man's happiness consists not in what he has, but in what he does with his possession. I remember a sentence: a person sees the bigger the world, the more easily angry. Bearing small people, have not seen anything of the world, encountered a little bit of small stones, is a mountain, the heart can not go, and the heart can not save, even if it is their most intimate, the most painful husband's wife. Parents support their children before they are twenty years old. What time do they have children?. The support for children before the age of thirty is "feeding the sweat", at this stage, parents can also use sweat for some goods for their children; if the children are thirty years old, the current parents are still sponsoring, that is "feeding blood.""! Eating is always a disgrace, not only to the shame of the children, but also to the shame of the parents - a sign of failure in family education. Most parents feel anxious only when their children are too young to stand on their own. Bearing children, is to allow them to rely on themselves, let them eat, but in the destruction of the child's self-reliance and faith. A new concept: strangers society. In today's society, a new scene has emerged: the stranger community. Everyone from all corners of the country, each other are unconscious, do not know each other's life experience and the inside story. Such a society is the most dangerous. For here, the least, the least, the bondage, the danger, the danger. He solemnly pointed out: "do not easily enter the" stranger society. "". If a person wants to change his life, he must change himself first and make himself mature. When life is unhappy, don't put all your obligations on others and change your life by replacing them. It's very dangerous. If a person does not understand, reflect, refuse to grow, many people will be in vain. You can't change the environment, but can change their own; you can not change the facts, but can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but can change now; you cannot control others, but can control yourself; you can't predict the future, but can grasp today; you can't do everything well, but you can't be everything; extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life. Character shapes life, and positive personality creates life. A person who lives in a complex social environment is likely to encounter adversity, failure, setbacks, and blows, However, only a good personality can keep the balance of mind. An active character is the starting point of victory, the sunshine and rain of life. One must know what is happiness, don't know how to cherish what you have, this is very important, otherwise there will be too many people with too much greed, greed, will often make some puzzling or more outrageous things. The more we care about life, the less we get, the less happiness we have. On the contrary, the less you care, the more you get. Most of the time, why do we always leave the reason very far, it is because we only know that his life, his life, his hatred of Hainan building materials. Without knowing how to look up. In the education of children, parents should communicate with children often exchange, rather than blindly blame and abuse, to see the child's flash point, give him encouragement and self growth. The best way to motivate a husband is to make him the true owner of a family, and to discuss everything, even in the end, with a wife's initiative, and respect your husband's views; When a man is jealous of others, he will be more or less suspicious, especially to those who care very much. This can understand, but suspect too much, I am tired, others are tired, the suspect brought the injury also brought to others. The result is not what both sides want, so don't take it as a fact, and wait until the facts are in place. Beauty or beauty needs something to support the ability to reach the end. That is temperament. If a person does not have the temperament, no virtue, no meaning, beautiful and handsome are specious. People often use many words to say not all the others, but rarely use a word or two to praise others. Marriage is not a matter of two people; it is a matter of two families. Some things do not communicate, others will never know. Women love comparison, men like reason Women grab men derailed, usually in order to rescue the marriage, men arrested women derailed, individual is to find reasons for each other. In a family, the love between husband and wife does not experience wind and rain, it is a cloud. Experience wind and rain may be together, it is a property. When marriage lights up "red light", its problems are summed up to one side and are always wrong. Both husband and wife should dare to find out their mistakes and correct them. They should be good at discovering each other's strengths instead of amplifying them in moderation. Wonderful life needs, more tolerance, less resentment. I know it's a long journey, and it's all about it. That's enough. There are memories, days of accumulation, is the most tangible feeling of our lives, Shuang, oral ulcers?.! We say, in some time for some people to hate and anger, we must maintain a point, they are human beings, but also human, we want to recall their humanitarian measures. "When we were young, we listened to fairy tales. They always lied to us. They said that the prince and the princess lived happily ever after. But in fact, if the prince and the princess are of high quality, they can be warm and happy in the future.". If the prince and the princess are of poor quality, though they are finally together, it must be a complex, trivial, disturbing life" What is "self-reliance"? To be self reliant is to have a whole world of energy in the absence of someone else. As long as you break it, life is in your hands. Any man with Bill gates, in any case, no matter how angry you are, can not hit a woman"... "Getting into marriage means that you can't think about your feelings, think about each other's feelings, and think about the feelings of the rest of the people.". So every word we speak, should be like an adult, a mature person. In marriage, finding a way to communicate with each other is extremely important." The left hand holds, the right hand is harsh, the personhood cannot move from one extreme to the other extreme. In fact, life was so good that anyone laughed at it! When you smile, even the sun will envy your light. "Bagasse family": if the lack of communication between family members, it will be like bagasse, sugar after repeated chewing, has no taste. For family members, that home is a place to sleep, and the husband comes home with his wife's stinky face. So communication is very important to the family. The sugar cane needs to chew gradually, slowly understand its flavor, even if one day is tasteless, but also must the nutrient receive well. Never because of lack of communication, and become "bagasse family."". People should learn to be grateful, you in your eyes, women, your wife has no strong points, I feel that people are like this, there is a person once there is one thing good for me, I can forgive her a lot of things. What event? If a woman, when my family and I was sick, crying to go to this, find that, take this money, borrow the money, love me, love my parents, she even again for my poor, I have a lifetime of gratitude. Only her kindness and filial piety, even if she did a lot of wrong, I can forgive her. Some people say that love is like a movie, often only a few hours of heat, read it will not. However, many films have been sequels, and the audience's novelty has been continuous and the heat has continued. I hope everyone's love can have sequels like movies, insist on freshness and heat. A lot of people got married, but I don't know. "Why should I get married?"" Even if you don't know why marry, when in their marriage, when even marriage present contradictory state, you don't know what to do, so that the house is completely already split, no longer have to laugh. In a word: please turn yourself into such a person, you are the other person in his memory, the home of the largest sofa. A man is the biggest sofa in a woman's home; a woman is the largest sofa in a man's home. Can depend on, you can draw strength in it, you can get tolerance and understanding inside. Everyone needs such a home. If not, what do we want to do at home?. A formula: there are some differences you two age, about thirty and about fifty, maybe eighty divided by 2, forty, that is to say we have to rely on the midline, young mature a little older, a little romance, a little calm, really like husband, then the husband and wife first friend is friend, not high level. The best way to feel bad about a wife is to respect her and make a rational decision when you are in the wrong. That is, let her trust that she has a husband to rely on. When two people together for a long time, the woman will be more and more love men, men more and more casual. Men would say women are always fond dream, the woman said the male has changed less spoiled her. It's true that everyone has changed, but time has changed, because the relationship has become close, accustomed to each other, so no longer like love. In any case, please do not steal love, or conflict, quarrel, and then leave. Three factors to keep your family green: First, a common purpose or a unique enemy. Second, be happy to face life. Third, to have a good relationship on Xiabei, that is you and the elders and the elderly, if the child relationship coordination, care for the young, the family will be very attractive. In our modern society China, said a "affair", are highly sensitive, many people will go to the blood on the Bay, so often when invention, when one party has an affair, the other party can make him a most immediate action to express anger. I just want to propose here: first, these actions can not solve the problem or determine the solution to the problem. Second, the affair is a kind of association with others must understand why it belongs to, what grade, Xu Zhimo, or Ximen Qing, is still the Chen2, you only get to know how to solve it, the disposal of all conflict, to establish conditions in this respect and understanding of this should be under and use the culture to solve the problem of civilization is not the wrist, otherwise it will only lead to family tragedy. Not civilized people will always miss uncivilized things Meet, like the first acquaintance, to the end of the old no resentment Every family should have melon seeds, why? When you are very busy, do not forget to sit down and chat with people around you, knock on the melon seeds, and promote emotion. Marriage must be unsatisfactory, but you can't decide divorce for one or two reasons. Look at the cause, look at the future, and go steady. When a woman is with her man, bear in mind that the dignity of a man is extremely important to him. Even if he made a mistake, he will be in for decent circumstances, let him admit, from the bottom of my heart to feel sorry for you, than you could blame him for pointing the nose more useful. Tell a story, two couples quarrel: One family quarrel, wives are guilty of wrong, a husband and wife in front of a very vibrant, said: I tell you where I said my wife,...,... How can it be wrong ah, there are two more noise the more fierce, a cat for 19 years. Another family wife made a mistake, put guns, guns, alternative edition of quotations. Asked the husband, wife, how can you do this, I say yes wife you are wrong, say to the husband, I was really wrong, I deny that fault is my fault, don't worry I admit to you, oh no wife to listen to is my fault results in the next 19 years they are processed quarrel. Two families, two kinds of life, is the one or two sentence ah. So, I would like to build a quarrel class in primary and secondary schools, how to quarrel is an art. Between a couple hundred years repair Sleeping sleep, but not noisy quarrel because of a quarrel, the other side of the enenaiai all forget, take each other into an invisible place, sorry. Life, experience some pain and suffering never mind, can not go out, the key is in pain and suffering can not learn, can not become a mature person from experience, can the future way. If you love someone, please tame her; if you don't love him, tell her not to deal with her. We should learn to treat people as people, and to think for each other. He also has dignity, value and fantasy. This is human. In order to defend dignity, realize delusion and reflect value, many people will make some puzzling things about their children. But we can help others with a smile. Life needs more patience, more respect. Unsuitable error is not necessarily the major causes of marriage breakdown or reason, this society is the same, no more refers to the movement space of both sides. To consider whether two people visit friends, play or go to business, the space is not nearly matched, rather than consider whether two people's identity is not appropriate.