让自己变得更自信的英文演讲稿(精简版)
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让自己变得更自信的英文演讲稿
让自己变得更自信的英文演讲稿
Many people yearn to be more self-confident. Yet they have no idea ho to achieve that objective. They look at others ho have the gift and say, “Hey that’s hat I ant. I hate feeling unsure
of myself. I ish I could stop obsessing about hat others think of me and quit orrying about disappointing other people. I ant to stop anguishing over my decisions and torturing myself about my mistakes. I think it ould be so great to feel self-assured, hold my head up high and stand tall. I’ve never been
self-confident. I ish there ere a ay I could be.”
There is a ay. You don’t have to be born ith self-confidence. Self-confidence can gro and flourish and ripen and blossom until you actually e to feel as though there is a different person inside of you. Here are some insights that might facilitate the quest.
Learn hat a self-confident person is really like. They are not cocky, kno-it-all people ho don’t care hat anybody else thinks.
They have their doubts. And make mistakes. And are far from perfect. Hoever, they are illing to acknoledge their inadequacies ithout delling on them. They do this by maintaining a sense of humor, putting problems in perspective, and focusing mainly on hat they’ve done right, not rong.
Though self-confident people do believe in themselves, they don’t try to suffocate others ith their ideas or beliefs. They are confident in hat they kno not only because they read, learn and think but also because they respect their instinct, intuition and the unique body of knoledge that they’ve
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developed by living life. They realize that one doesn't have to be labeled an “expert” to believe in one's on truths.
Self-confident people don’t undermine their on orth by paring
themselves ith others, only to conclude that they aren’t “good
enough”. They appreciate their strengths and acplishments and can acknoledge, ithout embarrassment, their eaknesses. They don’t live in the “victim” position. Even if something really
bad has occurred, they turn it into a challenge, remembering to be grateful for the little things in life.
Self-confident people let the orld kno ho they are. If they ant something badly enough, they kno they have every right to “go for it.” Yet, they also kno that the path ill rarely be easy. Mistakes, blunders and failures are part of the learning process. They seek to learn from their mistakes and do not aste time torturing themselves over hat “could have been”.
Self-confident people are not obstinate people. If they have an idea about something and it differs from the ay another person is thinking about it, they ill usually try to look at it from that person’s point of vie, see hy it makes sense to them. Yet, a confident person’s sense of self is grounded. It
does not blo in the ind. Their ideas do not fluctuate based on hat others deem are important.
I hope these insights are helpful to you. If so, perhaps one day you ill be able to say hat the actrePhyllis Rashad once said, simply but eloquently, ” I am just myself and ho I am is a lot.”